The narrator has been with his partner for a long time now but it isn't clear what they see in each other.
'I do worry about the people who like my writing' Becasue there's usually something wrong with them. Then again, I can't imagine life being even slightly agreeable without people who have something wrong with them'
- Balla on Big Love
'Big Love is primarily a critique of contemporary society, in which the triumph of liberal democracy has increased rather than diminished the Kafkaesque aspects of life'
- Charles Sabatos (from his introduction)